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4:16 AM, May 15, 2008
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May month is always the happening month, think about it maybe is the 2nd best month of the year (read : retail therapy) which comes after December (where you get bonus and more than 3 public holidays) and May month too is always the most pokai month of the year. I have 6 birthday and 2 mother's day gift to scout and also my year end of renewing road tax and insurance. Thank god the road tax has reduced and the amount for insurance after NCB deductions is manageable *pheeww* estimating around 500+ yay!!
What else did I buy this month? Yes oh yes..I bought foodies from
Ishoppeville, milkmaid tea, some teething biscuits and bear biscuits for the kiddos. Puan Olab is kind enough to pass the stuff to my dear hubby and my little boy has another flavor for him to munch, thanks auntie Olab :) Review saya akan buat kemudian ya.
On Mother's day, Rafiqah from CMOG, too delivered newspaper print which was long overdue and finally I got to see them and touch them. They are awesome, very neat, chantek sekali! If you guys wants a personalised gifts, visit cmog. I think I have purchased mine way back in 2003 with personalised books but the latest is for my parents anniversary of 45 years :) It was well arranged and we keep on sending back and forth to check on the contents/spelling, etc, so basically I have no qualms on the delay but all excited and so touched when I see the final product. Wait till you see the pic and need I to say more, my parents melelehlaa air mata :) Memang puas hati!!!
I have been longing to share you a story about mother baby bonding. I have a gf of C and she gave birth to a girl. From time to time we have small talk and smses, more of me giving her some advises. So after a few months, she has to get back to work and I sent her an email asking how's things and her baby. Her reply was kind of unexpected..she says things are ok, she manage to go out and catch some movies with hubby and leave her daugther with her maid. Her maid seems to be able to take care of her daughter but when she picks her up, her daughter will cry and always think the maid is the mummy :( She also said this "my daugther sleeps with my maid and since I'm going back to work soon, I can't afford to wake up at night, i'll be too sleepy. So, i'll just play only with baby ******"
Ohh gosshh...i was fuming mad but the choice is yours and I didn't reply her email. Even if I do reply, it will not be a pleasant or decent content to read. This story reminds me of another one I encounter when I have to attend a day training after a month of coming back to work. I had this C lady as the instructor and since I'm the only female attendee, we exchanged stories on motherhood. She too has a baby girl whom only a few months older than Aidan. She was complaning that she has to stop pumping when her baby is 4 mth and sais this as well " why ah everytime i carry her she will cry, cry and cry, she prefers her babysitter than me.." Rupa2 makcik tu hantar anak kat babysitter for the whole week and only weekends jer jumpa. Duhhh!!! Rasa nak marah jer!
Ok enough said, let's celebrate mother's day everyday and only 'true' mothers who know what real mothers, SAHM or not have to go through deserve this wish "Happy Mother's Day".
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6:48 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by mamarawkswahh.. your gf can live like that huh!?
sian baby tu.. kecik2 dah confuse..
Ermmm
7:03 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by butterflutterI scan back and look for the letter 'C' yup it was there. It's normal for them they pay up to rm700-800 a month. I had a neighbour (old hse) like that later they send balik kg. I never saw their daughter, same age as Sarah but born later of the yr.
Its normal for some of them :(
In the photo of my mr new office ada nampak his bday newspaper :-)
zan says
7:53 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by zanmama : kesiankan kat anak.
BF : yes yes i saw that too :) i think my ex boss pun camtu gak, hantar anak kat kampung..i just pity them really but may it's the best arrangement..dunnola.
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7:53 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by ondeondeHAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO YOU!
tak pelik bagi for these C ladies to leave their babies one whole week and only weekends jer ambik. diaorang ni semua mata $$$ sampaikan korbankan anak-anak.
birthday newspaper I ada buatkan untuk feryal last year.
zan says
7:57 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by zanOO : tu laaa...actually kalau difikirkan sama jugak kalau u hv maid tapi semua you lepas tgn kat maid...camna tu? a reminder for myself too.
kena fikir lama sikit
8:11 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by lolliesapakah itu letter C. ooohhhhhh. hahahahha. slowlah makcik.
jauh dari anakku? oh tidakku sanggup. Alhamdullilah ada kemudahan untuk jaga anak sepanjang I kerja.
muahaha
9:06 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by zanlawaklaa you nie lollies :)
sekarang lagi senang kan, anak 24 jam depan mata..*green with envy*
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9:51 AM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by rotiduaAlahai kesian anak. Dulu masa Naim kecik, bibik suka tidurkan dia awal. I balik kejutkan dia hehehe. Padan muka kena kacau tidur.
Tapi tak tau lah sometimes it works for the parents-children. I kenal jugak org macam tu, now tengok anak2 dia rapat juga ngan mak bapak.
hurmm..
12:08 PM, May 15, 2008 .. Posted by futuredoctapi ada je M pun hantar anak balik kampung/malaysia suh nenek jagakan. every 6 months aje jumpa. itu at least nenek la jugak..but still..apa fungsi ibu kalau cenggitu.
to me, if it suits them and tak menzalimi anak, up to them. but kalau anak tak menjadi, jangan nak disalahkan maid. and when they're old nanti..nak harapkan ada anak yg nak jaga mereka..itu.. pikir sendiri2 la. lagi satu yg sedih.. ibu2 camni (kalau muslim ler) tak dptlah doa:
"Ampunkan dosa kedua ibu bapaku dan rahmatilah mereka sebagaimana mereka menjagaku semasa kecik"
terlepassss beb.
i try gi CMOG tu tapi at the website, takleh click pun apa2?
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2:05 AM, May 16, 2008 .. Posted by famygirli think ramai couples yang C hanya menjadi ibubapa pada hujung minggu. kalau tak tinggal ngan parents depa (atuk-nenek), tinggal ngan babysitter berbayar.
tak taulah how diorang can proceed with life as usual. nak kata tak educated, rasanya educated. so takkan tak tau pasal bonding with kids n such. *shrug*
rafiqah was at my place before she went to meet you ;)
zan says
2:17 AM, May 16, 2008 .. Posted by zanRoti : agree with you, I pun ada extended family yg anak2 tido dgn maid n quite rapat but bila dah besar, they are close to the parents.
FD : saya suka laa awak punya comment :) suka tang doa tu. my hubby is very particular of the role of parents and the role of bibik..so pasal anak2 mmg kitaorg yg bereskan..my maid is only helper in the house. hopefully this will maintain, insyallah.
i think mmg takde apa2 yg boleh click, she only put up entries on her products.
famy...
2:20 AM, May 16, 2008 .. Posted by zanheheh..yes yes..she told me and I was surprise coz masa sms, sibuk dia kata nak pergi BJ, rupa2 nak berjumpa dgn si Puan famy :)
pssttt ... i'm going t'row, insyallah ;)
=p
8:51 AM, May 16, 2008 .. Posted by futuredochehehe you tertinggal blogspot kat link COMG tu..padanlar tak dpt website yg sebenarnya. i know this coz i just clicked the link in famy's page hehehehe
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