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6:40 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted in All About Family .. 16 comments .. Link
Hari ini saya terasa saya nak menceceh. Nak menceceh pasal banyak benda tapi saya tak tahu saya boleh speed type secepat yang otak saya katakan.

Saya nak menceceh pasal b'feeding. Anak saya tak tumbuh gigi lagi tapi dia suka beno tarik2 itu *tut*, geram betul, picit2 hidung dia tapi gelak macam org tua, yelah takde gigilah katakan, senyum nampak gusi saja. Nasib baik saya teringat pesan makcik Gart suruh letak minyak gamat..memang ajaib, 2 mlm jer dah baik dah luka2 dan nipple crack tuh. Dulu masa confinement pakai purelan selama 2 bulan pun tak jalan! Semalam saya dah mula ganti puasa yg saya tinggal masa ramadan tahun lalu...ada lagi 29 hari! mak aiiii..banyaknya. Pastukan saya nak cete skit, saya simpan susu kat ofis orang, buat muka tak malu ding dong ding dong ofis customer, pastu buat muka tak malu, pinjam fridge diaorg, pastu jalan ke another end, pinjam sinki basuh pump. Setiap hari saya keluar masuk 2 kali, pagi dan ptg. Kadang2 ditakdirkan berjumpa dengan org2 tua lelaki yg miang dan tak senonoh. Bila jumpa muka saya, ada jer suara2 sumbang "susu dah dtg....." "oh stock u dah hilang...i dah ambik" euwwwww..., pastu ada hati tambah komen "buat utk hilangkan pening". That's an INSULT! dan banyak lagi yg tak larat saya nak cakap. Nasib baik 2-3 org jer yg mental, kalau ramai lagi mmg saya malas nak masuk ofis diaorg tu.

Hari nie saya nak menceceh pasal mak bapak budak yg tak senonoh. Ini dah lama saya nak cerita cuma kadang2 lupa. Saya dan anak2 bersama2 dengan hubby pergi ou, old wing dekat2 dgn laks@ sh@ck, nak pie print gambar2 yg dah lama terperap kat portable disk. So, saya pun tinggalkan anak2 dengan hubby dan jalan laju2 pergi fot0kem, dah tiba masa nak collect print out. Dah selesai saya jalan pergi jumpa anak2. Nael tengah ride Barney car sementara hubby pegang Aidan. Datang 1 couple (C) dengan anak yang kecik skit dari Nael, merengek2 kat bapak dia nak naik Barney car. Lantas bapak dia terus cakap kuat2 kat kami berdua "your son wants to ride or not ah?"dgn marah2.."put in the coins lah!!" saya memang terkejut badak dan hubby pun sudah mula nak nak tunjuk belang but still in compose manner "let him play for a while..". Pastu bapak budak tu terus cakap "f**k y0u" :O Ada jugak parents yg macam nie yer...Apparently, hubby cakap, Nael baru jer naik Barney in less than 1 minute, then they came. Yang teruk tu, langsung tak nak menunggu and he swore in front all of us. So, you can imagine how he raise his kid :( kesian...


Hari nie saya nak menceceh pasal org2 tua yg ada pelbagai penyakit tapi buat2 takde sakit dan tak nak makan ubat. Bapa saya adalah salah seorang dari tu. Dia walaupun makan ubat konsisten, tapi bila kaki bengkang, perut kembung, muka puffy still dia kata dia ok. Geram jugak kita dibuatnya. Banyak jugak yg saya kenal, ada yg tak makan ubat on time, tak nak makan pun ada. Macam mana yer kita nak cakap dengan mereka2 ini? Masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri. Kita nie concern, takut jadik apa2. Kalau nak diikutkan saya yg tak berapa reti pasal medical nie, bila bapak saya kata OK, kita pun ingatkan OK laa...nasib baik abang saya intervene cepat2, bawak pie hospital prevet, rupa2nya jantung bengkak, dah masuk kat paru2. That was 2 weeks ago and at the same time makcik saya meninggal dunia due to heart attack. Jadiknya 2 weeks back mmg saya emo..emo sesangat, takut apa2 jadik kat bapak saya. pergi kerja tapi nangis2 kat laptop..lantakla apa budak2 kat sini nak cakap. Satu lagi, alhamdulillah Tuhan panjangkan umur dan alhamdulillah jugak for my bro's early intervention, dia laa yg buat call sana sini, arrangekan appointment..kalau nak harapkan saya dan kakak saya, mmg kitaorg nie blur2 esp kakak saya yg workaholic tu. Pengajarannya : anyone at anytime boleh pergi, jaga kesihatan, love and show your parents u care for them and it's an advantage to have a doc in a family. *wink* to adik2 yg kat melbourne tu :)

Esok saya nak sambung menceceh, if time permits, insyallah.
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8:20 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by beelove
wink kat saya ker tuh? hihihi

tadi kan ada sorang pakcik ni kan, hidung berdarah tak henti. dah la on warfarin (anti-coagulant aka blood thinning drug) so lagi la berdarah dgn hebatnya. so kena la pakcik ni duduk spital, pehtu nak marah2 plak sbb kena tahan spital. ckp la time kaseh ke or at least ckp la elok2 kan kater nak balik. karang dah terantuk kepala, berdarah tak henti, koma, haaa sapa susah. eeee geram! oppss sorry saya plak menceceh

saya rasa patient ni kurang di'educate'. kalau derang di beritahu betapa bahayanya sakit derang haaa mungkin laa pastu terus jumpa doktor

zan says

8:30 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by zan
bee in love : yerr..termasuk awak lah tu :)

pesal kena makan that thinning drug tu yer? is it bcoz u have HBP and u're old? i see so many pakciks n makciks makan ubat tu.

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8:44 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by butterflutter
Men pun kena diberitahu pasal breastfeeding ni kan kena educate dia org tu jgn nak insult pulak.
1 family 1 dr ek...mana satu kita nak pilih....not afiq lah dia penakut maybe one of the 2 girls.




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8:47 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by beelove
warfarin is a blood thinning usually for patient in atrial fibrillation, had past history of deep vein thrombosis(DVT), pulmonary embolus(PE) etc as thromboprophylaxis, so that lower the risk of getting stroke and recurrent DVT and PE sbb die 'cairkan' darah so that tak clot. erm does that make sense? however ada jugak org on this thing kena stroke sbb boleh bleed into the brain, sbb tuh kena monitor by having blood test called INR so that die nye INR within therapeutic range.

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9:15 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by elisataufik
To the bad parents, "huyooohh people like this also got ah? you talk like that in front of your kids, tak malu kah? You want to ride the thing, ask nicely lor.. dont have to be so rude mahhh"

eceh ceh I pulak yang terlebih emo.

I hope your dad feels better soon. Do you think that maybe he's just a little afraid of the truth? Maybe kalu cakap selow2, share your fears of losing him, maybe lembut sikit kot hati dia nak makan ubat.. :)
*hugs*


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9:25 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by mosh
hehehe makcik dah lama tak submit entry, geram punya pasal terus mencece kat dalam ni.

wtf? i'm referring to the ou couple la. sah le terlebih makan baa tu. kalau power sangat beli la seketul benda tu letak kat rumah. takde nak kena share dgn orang lain.

menceceh jugak

9:27 AM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by futuredoc
b'feeding: tensen kan anak sengih or gelak je bila kita marah dia. layth pun camtu. dia gigit *tut* pas tu boleh gelak sebab tengok reaction kita. ada sekali tu sakit sangat i nangis..dia gelak sbb dia ingat i main2...ces!

pasal lelaki miang tu kan..pelik tul mereka nih. derang tak rasa tercabar ke kalau orang treat mak dia or sister dia the way dia treat you like that. tak senonoh! no respect langsung

rude parents: eh kalau kat sini main dengan toy car tu walaupun tak masukkan coins orang still wait in line tau nak guna. biadap punya manusia. apa punya values ajar kat anak dia? kesian anak dia ek

org tua degil: oh banyak personal experience with this. i agree with beelove. most people tak tau the severity of their illness..especially kalau the bad consequences arent immediate. jadi takde immediate motivation untuk take medication or follow a lifestyle change. minat GP kat sini, bila bagi patient ubat, derang take time untuk explain things.

untung ada your brother ek. i agree loh. untung ada doc in the family. your family gets better access to healthcare. this is sad. everyone should get better access. plus you know, docs ada quota of drugs they can take for themselves for personal use or family use. so macam my FIL is a doctor so he prescribed morphine for his late father's palliation. tak perlu father dia pergi hospital every time.

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12:55 PM, February 26, 2008 .. Posted by rotidua
Harlo makcik lama tak menceceh!

On f**k you from other parent: Pelik betul eh. I pernah kat playground, Najwa tunggu buaian masya Allah lamanya! Mak dia (C) duduk tak jauh dari situ buat tak kesah je. Orang lain dah panjang beratur. Pastu masa dia atas swing lagi dia suruh mak dia chop swing sebelah. Berjangkit lah dia. Sabar je la ek.

On remark from lelaki2: Can i share you a story?
my LelakiKerusi, a TanSr! i is known for his temper. Jenis yang jerkah orang dengan bahasa kesat lah. Kalau dia nak jumpa orang, dia nak orang tu ada depan mata promptu. So this Lady Manager was called in. Lambat 10mins camtu. Waktu dia sampai LelakiKerusi sudah ready nak tengking. You know what the LM said "Sorry TanSr!, saya perah susu tadi tak bley nak berhenti dan sambung balik. Kalau berhenti separuh jalan nanti bocor saya depan TanSr!"

ahahhahah LelakiKerusi tak jadi marah ok. So from them on bila dia jumpa the LM dia akan tanya Secretary dia dulu "Si XX tengah perah susu tak? Suruh dia mai jumpa i lepas tu"

ahahhahahha

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1:26 AM, February 27, 2008 .. Posted by zan
BF : mostly lelaki yg wifey dia b'feed mmg ada knowledge or more sensitive pasal issue b'feeding nie. yg tak sensitive tu tak taulah nak ckp, mmg perangai camtu kot. kita pun dok harap anak kita salah sorang jadik doc, senang nak consult tapi kita merancang tuhan yg tentukan..kan kan :)

Beelove : aiyoo sungguh high stdlah awak punya bahasa...i cuma tahu mmg nak elakkan blood clot but mostly the elderly yg i kenal semua have been prescribed this drug.

Elisa : actually lepas dia ckp f**k u, mr Z dah start sound dia tapi org tu terus scoop anak dia n chow, nampak sgt pengecut!

bapak kita mmg makan ubat, ada org lain yg tak makan ubat (can't tell here) , only problem he always thinks he's OK, sihatttt...itulah jawapan dia.

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1:42 AM, February 27, 2008 .. Posted by zan
Mosh : i dunno laaa apa nak jadi, mostly yg i pernah encounter C parents mmg ajar anak dia to be selfish, tak reti nak sabar n queue, pakai bull doze saja..anak org tengah ride the toy car, boleh biar jer anak diaorg naik the same car. Ni bukan nak pukul rata, but mostly mmg i encounter these type of parents and they are C.

FD : hahahaha on that gigit part :) on the lelaki miang and C parents, read my reply to BF and mosh :)
one thing i notice, over here in hospital kerajaan, they will prescribe medication for these org tua for yearssss..yes they will do blood test after a period of time, also eyes check, kidney check and all but i think there are more thorough check needs to be done and thorough explaination must be given to the elderly albeit some of them mmg tak paham apa doc or nurses cakap. senang cakap, if u can afford to send your parents to private hospital under religious observation, try to do so. my parents, they did went to hospital kerajaan but after a while, my brother reasses their health, he thinks they need more close up monitoring...yelah bila dah makan ubat itu ini, ada jer new cases timbul :(

zan says

1:45 AM, February 27, 2008 .. Posted by zan
Rotidua : muahahaha!!!! itu lawak antarabangsa!! You really make my day :)

on the f**k tu, baca my reply to mosh...i selalu kena mcm tu,mentang2 la anak kita tak aggresive, always give in, diaorg ambik kesempatan *booo*.

menceceh malam buta

3:21 PM, February 27, 2008 .. Posted by famygirl
eiii sakitnya telinga (dan hati) dengan couple (C) itu, dan org2 ofis yang tak senonoh tu. i hope i don't know them...

glad your father is okay. scarynya. *hugs*

i pernah tanya sofea if dia nak jadi doctor bila besar, dia cakap dia nak jadi "painter" hee hee

entah

5:31 AM, February 28, 2008 .. Posted by lollies
entah kenapa ek? saya ni pelik kot orangnya. sebab masa saya perah susu dulu dapat remark macammt u saya tak rasa pulak apa2. like dia miang ke apa. perhaps I have been mixing with the lads banyak kot. I cakap aje ko nak ke aku masukkan dalam teh/ kopi ko. they will continue giving remarks but i bukan peduli pun. but if you don't like it or not comfortable with it, get a small cooler. i have a coleman. yang i selalu bawak kalau pergi kursus. tak yah letak kat fridge. beli dry ice tu. bekukakn. Insya Allah tahan sampai petang.

zan says

6:01 AM, February 28, 2008 .. Posted by zan
FG : painter? heheh very artistic tu :) you know 2 of them, pernah 1 ofis dgn kita dulu..

Lollies : mmg sah2 u dah biasa dgn benda2 cam gitu, tak ambik pot punya. to me kenala ada batasnya, sah2 laa i bukannya close to them that I can just ignore their remarks. fyi, i use avent, dia ada concealer for the container, tak nampak pun bendanya...

sempat saya berblog di malam hari

4:55 PM, February 29, 2008 .. Posted by oflionandbear
pe'el (C) yg selfish mmg gitu. saya agak muak, mual, bohsan segala ngan pesen diorg.
(one of reasons saya berhijrah cepat2 to now home)

mulut2 jahat itu : ish tak suka. u penah bg reply any remark tak kat diorg? kasi diorg sadar sikit.

how's ur dad now? harap2 he's much better now



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8:30 AM, March 3, 2008 .. Posted by lazydaisy
hello lama u tak update blog.
hope ur dad dah ok.
kalau that C parents talk like that to my kids gerenti i pun marah gile..apa la mmg selfish betul. tapi i perasan kalau M parents takde la camtu kan..i pun selalu pe bagi budak budak tu main naikk jee benda camtu tapi tak bayar..there was one incident time ni lupe bawak stroller adam and adam ni mmg hyperactive tak ingat nye.. i dah penat sgt menjaga dia to the extend macam nak pengsan je with the pregnancy lagi kan lepas tu dudukkan la dia dalam kete tu..sekali tu ada satu parents M ni datang and bubuh duit dalam kete lain...i biar jela adam heheh sebab dah penattt sgt... dia ok je takde hal pun hehe :)

pasal remarkds breastfeed tu pun i dont think so i will be ok with that kind of comments...tapi dulu nasib baik male colleagues takde la sampai cakap camtu cuma cakap haa ni projek ibu ibu mithali je hahahah

hope your dad is ok now. my dad pun hari tu sakit jugakk risau kat dia.

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