Count your blessings
Am not sure in what state I am..first n foremost, I'm tired..really really really tired. Next I'm not too sure why I'm feeling so grumpy..the kids are not well since last week, they have bouts of cough, feverish and even Aidan already starting to show he's gonna get that running nose. With the sound of "kong kong kong" every night, Ummi is sleep deprive. I think I just got a little overboard, being mad at my other half for not listening to me earlier. He has been having thisirritation cough and did not even bother to see a doctor, instead, he only took some off shelf medication and been consuming for about a mth. Whaddayaknow...the kids now have it, even my helper got it too. To think that I'm the only one who has been doing a lot ( taking good care of myself, the kids and other gazellion things) and simply due to this in house virus has got my life totally wrecked, is not fair at all. This morning, at the breakfast table, I just sat down, took a deep breath and started counting on my blessings. I always wanted to have more kids and smack hard on the head, they do come in a package. Apa laa sangat batuk, demam dan selsema when other parents' children suffer a lot worse...I think I just need to take things a bit lighter and enjoy life more, I should say "I love you" more to the other half and appreciate all his hard work in the office, rather than showing off my mencuka attitude. I should even hug more and kissy kissy my boys rather than to yell "Nael, don't do this..don't do that" kind of thing. I should also count my blessing on my work, sure I'm not too happy about it but at least I'm employed. Besides, I have a helper whom I can really rely on. She's so loving towards my kids and in time like this (the not so healthy kiddos) I know my boys are in good hands. Perfect it may sound..guess I have to work on it, life is all about making it, happy or not.
p/s: did u get to watch j0n n k@te, + 8? The mother is what i call superwoman. Handling 2 6 yrs old and 6 2 yrs old? uhh *shudder*
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bila penat
6:37 AM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by futuredoc
bila penat & lapar & tak cukup tidur, we get so grumpy kan. rasa nak meletup je. we blame the nearest thing available. hubby! :p
anyway, hope you will find some cheer soon. great job, being able to think about your blessings at times like this.
take it easy
6:52 AM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by lazydaisy
easy to say, but hard to put it in action i know.
bile kids sakit mommy tends to be in pressure sebabnya kite yg tak tido malam kan...
i also need to smile more and less nag which is kind of hard... heheh rasa kena bersyukur lebih lagi ni
the couple yg ada six tuplets + twins tu memang my mentor betul la... i seriously respect the wifey organised betul i wonder how am i going to survive nanti.. and she survived without any helper kan, super woman betul..
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6:59 AM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by mosh
don't know why (maybe coz i'm not married to her) tapi rasa kalau zan nak marah tu macam comel je hehehe.
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7:15 AM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by ondeonde
nasib ummi tak kena jangkit virus..kalau dah lagi haru biru..
memang la kalau anak2 tak sihat ni, even tho we moms looked physically healthy tapi emotionally tak berapa nak healthy sangat..trying times sangat2 kalau anak2 tak sihat..
yup, keep telling myself in the midst of chaos, there's a blessing in disguise..I pun baru jer recover from chaos..you can too!
zan says
7:30 AM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by zan
FD : betul tu..hubby mcm punching bag kan kan hahah..kadang tu kesian gak, balik penat2 dari opis, dah kena 'nyeh nyeh nyeh' dari i, tak pasal2 semua grumpy..tapikan cliche it may sound, we do this b'cos we care :P
LD : i pun mmg tabik kat dia, sungguh organize, siap boleh label semua benda, no helper n work around the clock 24x7..tak bolehku imagine if i were in her shoes. i bet you pun skang suka tgk 733, this month kan is all about multiples :)
Mosh : errrr zan tak comei langsung bila tgh marah2, better you not talk to me at all, tak pasal2 u pun kena sekali heheh...
OO : that's whylah i need to vent out in this blog, some kind of a therapy bila dah bercerita and i know for sure i have all the backings from all of you :) muahs!!
baby tua demam pon susah gak
7:49 AM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by beelove
bini yang tak tido malam hihihi take care zan!
I have 2 6 year-olds and 6 2 year olds.
9:32 AM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by gartblue
*shudder*
I watch them and I wonder if they've lost their temper along the way .. it really is hard. I would've imagined so. We have it easy, I think.
But zan .. you're right .. babies come in this neat littlepackage that we all love unconditionally,in sickness and in pain. but I feel for you woman. I know how tired you are. but hang in there, okay? the years will go by and suddenly you find the possesion of the bed again. psst I'm not there yet!
*hugs lebih sikit*
hope u feel a tad better and a better night tonight.
yup!! i watch that show!
8:25 PM, November 28, 2007
.. Posted by bbd
lepas tu kan kita yg ada anak sebiji ni rasa macam tak derr aperrr compare to them... *sigghh... tapi napa terasa letih jugak eh!??! siap tangan selalu terseliuuh... uuuggh balik kampung week end ni mmg kena kusuk lagi laa.. :| and org laki ni mmg la kalau setakat batuk n' selesma jerr tak nak gi klinik.. papa pasha did d same too... kena pujuk ber hari2 sampai mulut kuar buih baru nak pegi... geram sungguh aku... any how.. i am doing fine zan.. i think.. :D sajeerr tak de mood lagi nak blogging.. blog hopping sempat la sekali sekala...:D hehehe thanks for asking... *huugggsss.. ternyata memang berat menjadi ibu yah?? for abang and baby aidan cepat sembuh ya sayang... kalau abah tak nak jumpa dokter gigit sajaaa... :p
Ahhhh...
Between baby till 2yo mmg lah amat mencabar. I ni baru rasa mcm boleh lepas nafas sikit. Boleh concentrate on other things etc.
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1:58 AM, November 29, 2007
.. Posted by rotidua
Bila tengok orang ada anak kecik rasa jeran nak beranak lagi. Penat! tapi bila tengok lagi sekali rasa macam naaaak sangat.
Hang in there, Zan. Tak bley imagine u mengamuk hihihi. I garang.
i pun nk babies jgk..
tp yg sorang ni pun dah mencabar amat rasanya...
but it's true. bila tgk org lain laaaagi susah, mcm2 prob, ekceli kita ni dah syukur sgt2 dpt rezeki mcm ni.
a fren of mine, after 7 years married now surprisingly pregnant!
mcm2 cara blessing tu dtg, kan.
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